The Question We Ask: “Why Me?”

In my sixty-plus years on this blue-green planet, I’ve asked this question a zillion times—especially during my teenage and young adult years when my father’s drinking problem was a source of terrible pain with no solution is sight. My guess is, you’ve asked this question too I’ve stopped asking this question because I now have…

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How the Universe Nudged Me

If you haven’t read the previous post titled “My Beloved Grandma and the Indian Epics,” please start there. You’ll be able to follow the thread we’re picking up here, in the next part of the story. My husband and I were in Southern India in the summer of 2022 eating lunch with one of his…

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My Beloved Grandma and the Indian Epics

My Love of Story I grew up on a diet of stories, especially stories from the Indian epics, the Ramayana and the Mahabharata. When I was growing up in a small town in Southern India in the 60’s, the tradition of oral storytelling was rich. My favorite adult was my beloved paternal grandma, the storyteller…

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Why We Need A Mentor

In a 3-part series I published earlier, I wrote about the abuse of spiritual leadership. That brings up a question: do we need a spiritual guide at all? Photo by SOULSANA on Unsplash Power mongers who pose as spiritual leaders and teachers have made us all wary. They cause us to suspect anything “spiritual” that…

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7 Vulnerabilities Self-Serving Spiritual Leaders Exploit

Part 2 of this series is about our wounded aspects and how this make us vulnerable to leaders with self-serving agendas. Photo by Milada Vigerova on Unsplash Our admiration is activated when we see someone standing in their power. We want to be like them. And when they tell us that we absolutely can, that…

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The Lure of Spiritual Transformation

This is part 1 of a 3-part series on why and how so-called spiritual leaders are luring gullible women into the lie of “transformation” by playing on their vulnerabilities. Photo by Edward Cisneros on Unsplash I didn’t consciously set out to do this, but once I started I couldn’t stop. I stumbled upon my first…

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3 Books that Changed My Life

3 books that changed my life when I was ready for transformation guided me to a new way of thinking, seeing, doing, and being. When my grief was fresh and intense, something strange happened. I, who am a voracious reader, just could not bear to read fiction. The characters and plots seemed trite. And I…

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